Questions You Should Ask Before Marriage
Additional Information
Compiled by Bilal Dannoun
Bilal Dannoun is a renowned Islamic and Civil marriage celebrant based in Sydney, Australia. He is an experienced marriage counsellor, offering marital advice with a blend of Islamic texts and modern day research.
General
- Why do you want to get married? What are your expectations?
- Have you been married before? How many times?
- Are you married now?
- Tell me about your education?
- Do you have any particular habits I should know about?
- Would you call yourself an introvert or extrovert?
- What are 5 things that make life wonderful?
- Have you learnt any lessons from a previous relationship?
- “Keep your eyes wide open before marriage and half-shut afterwards.” Is this approach beneficial at times
Describe your top three perceived gender differences.
Overseas Couple Marrying In Australia
If you are an overseas couple planning to marry in Australia you will need to consider the following points to ensure your marriage is legal and the wedding day runs smoothly.
Do you need to be an Australian Citizen to marry in Australia?
No. Anyone may marry in Australia providing you are both over the age of 18 and not already legally married.
What documents do you need to lodge?
You will need to lodge a Notice of Intended Marriage (NOIM) at least 1 month and 1 day and no more than 18 calendar months before you marry. I can do this on your behalf. Alternatively, you can download the form from my website under the ‘FORMS’ tab.
Do you need to be in Australia or have lived in Australia for any given time before you can marry?
No. If you wanted to you could marry the day that you arrive from overseas, although you must have already lodged your Notice of Intended Marriage form at least 1 month and 1 day before the marriage day.
Will the marriage be recognised in your own country?
You will need to confirm this with your own government authorities which records marriages in your country.
What other documents will you need to have with you to marry in Australia?
You will need original (no photocopies) birth certificates, passports, divorce decrees (divorce papers) or death certificate